The Parameters of Male Chastity

Male chastity is not just your normal, run of the mill fetish. Male chastity is a long-term fetish. It’s not the type of fetish that can be for “just in the bedroom fun.” It carries over into daily life in a number of ways and affects both everyday life and sexual life for both partners in the relationship. When a couple decides to enter into a femdom chastity relationship, there are a number of things that they must consider, unlike other fetishes where couples can indulge in them often free of any forethought or considerations.

Male chastity is not just a fetish, but instead a lifestyle choice that should not be entered into lightly. When the power exchange dynamic is completely reversed, there will obviously be a number of changes within said relationship, and this is especially important to remember when making the decision to be in a chastity regimen with your lover. As a femdom chastity mistress, you have to be firm in establishing rules and learn to accept that you are the center of sexual attention for a change!

Establishing Femdom Chastity Rules with your lover

Since the basis of male chastity revolves around the controlled tease and denial of sexual pleasure, it is of the utmost importance to make clear the rules of male chastity with your lover. As his keyholder, you will be ultimately in charge of if, when, and how your mate will be allowed to experience sexual relief.

Micro-management of sexual relief is the sole reason that male chastity is so effective at controlling your lover’s other behaviors that aren’t even remotely related to attaining sexual behavior, though admittedly, almost all male behavior is related to attaining sexual relief, either directly or indirectly.

The first rule that will need to be established is that he will no longer be allowed to touch, caress, jerk off, fondle or generally “play” with himself. His cock is no longer his, but yours! As a femdom chastity mistress, you are the only one with the POWER to fondle, caress or stroke his cock. This is exceptionally important in reinforcing your authority as the sole provider of his sexual pleasure and relief.

Secondly, you will want to put your male chastity slave on a schedule. For men who are new to chastity, it is recommended that you put them on a weekly schedule for sexual relief. This, however, does not mean that the he is OBLIGATED to orgasm once a week, every week; his privilege of orgasming can easily be revoked if he fails to comply with your rules, complete his chores or otherwise please you.

With each transgression, his time in chastity will be extended for a period of time that you determine. Your male chastity slave will learn quickly that when you are unhappy with him, the consequence for him will be lack of sexual pleasure. Giving the male chastity slave only ONE opportunity for orgasm per week means that he will appreciate his orgasms SO much more! It will be no time at all before your lover has learned to equate your happiness with his own!

Male Chastity and Your Sexual Pleasure

Women often assume that since their lover is being prevented from sexual relief that they, too, will be kept from reaching sexual release. This is most definitely not true. In fact, this will be the perfect opportunity for your male chastity slave to perfect his cunnilingus techniques, and it is encouraged for him to practice as often and long as possible. Your male chastity slave will be more than happy to accomodate your sexual needs. Serving you sexually will not only feel like an accomplishment for him, but will also ensure his own sexual relief once he has earned it.

As a female chastity mistress, it is important to remember to have fun in the midst of all the rule making! You should never shy away from the Goddess routine. In fact, make him ask politely to be allowed to please you. The more you tease your mate and control not just his sexual pleasure, but also his service to you in every way, the more intense your relationship will become.

The sexual energy that you will be able to generate in your male chastity slave by following this guide will only be channeled into pleasing you, so use your imagination when pushing your slave to new limits! It will not be long before you adore keeping your lover locked in chastity and will wonder why you waited so long! You will have a man who will adore you in a way that no man has ever adored you, and your relationship will be more solid than you have ever imagined, all as a result of male chastity!

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